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Sᴏʀʀᴏᴡ ([personal profile] thirdreturned) wrote in [community profile] hadriel2017-02-25 09:26 am

Third ☂ Text

Many of you seem to be unhappy.

We don't all necessarily want you to be happy, but acceptance and adaptation to your situation would be a start. The only question that remains is: how?

It is clear to us that your species resolves many issues through communication. Unfortunately, none of us understand the human psyche as clearly as others of your species, and so I leave it to you to communicate with and to help one another.

You may consider this post an open forum in which you can discuss what's been bothering you. In turn, I will conceal your identities, so that you may help one another without preconceived biases. If you'd like to reveal yourselves to one another, the option is there, but unnecessary.

Heal. Recover.

I'll leave you to it.


[[This is an event post for the Never Log In event! Remember, characters are compelled to get things off of their chest here, as well as to help others- and of course, please stay oocly logged in for your comments!]]
circumitus: If you can't drink cheep beer and whiskey with me, I don't want you. (fuck it)

anon.

[personal profile] circumitus 2017-02-25 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
and the difference between regular sex and irregular sex is?
circumitus: its people like u that make people like me go to rehab. he has a lazy eye for christ sakes. (your girlfriend is a south jersey whore)

anon.

[personal profile] circumitus 2017-02-25 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
routine as in varied sexual activities themselves or a consistent schedule of having sex?
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anon.

[personal profile] haemophobe 2017-02-25 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Schedule.
Least, something between nothing for months and a lot. Last thing our lives need here is more irregularity.
circumitus: even drones can fly away.... the queen is their slave... (chill out big head)

anon.

[personal profile] circumitus 2017-02-26 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
didn't you say you'd rather not have to see who you slept with again afterwards? hard to keep a routine without someone who's down with that sort of thing on the regular.
haemophobe: (162 | ʏᴏᴜ'ʟʟ ᴄᴏᴍᴇ ʙᴀᴄᴋ ɴᴏᴡ)

anon.

[personal profile] haemophobe 2017-02-26 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
It's not that hard if you're in a place with enough people. Go out, find someone, have sex.
circumitus: She was stuck there, we simply exchanged rides. (it's not like i paid for sex)

anon.

[personal profile] circumitus 2017-02-26 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
that's not so easy to do for some people, even with a much larger population.
haemophobe: (24 | ᴏꜰ ᴄᴏᴜʀsᴇ ɪᴛ's ꜰᴀɴᴄʏ ᴅʀᴇss)

anon.

[personal profile] haemophobe 2017-02-26 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Shouldn't be. Just say you want to fuck and go. Not that hard.
It only gets weird if you're somewhere everyone knows everyone.


( i.e. Hadriel. )
circumitus: She was stuck there, we simply exchanged rides. (it's not like i paid for sex)

anon.

[personal profile] circumitus 2017-02-26 01:44 am (UTC)(link)
except that it IS hard.
not everyone can just physically open themselves up to someone that way, no matter how horny or in love with that person they are.
haemophobe: (204 | ᴡʜᴇɴ ɪ ᴋɪᴄᴋ ᴏᴘᴇɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴅᴏᴏʀ)

anon.

[personal profile] haemophobe 2017-02-26 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
Why not?
It's easier than the emotional component.


( Seriously, though. She... doesn't understand. She can find ways to be physical without it being scary. But it being emotional?

Nope. She tried that. And it ended with her waking up in an empty bed with nothing but a notebook and a shirt to remember them by. )
circumitus: She literally cut my boxers off with a 8" chef's knife and had her way with me. (tomorrow never knows)

anon.

[personal profile] circumitus 2017-02-26 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
because it's humiliating. it's degrading to let someone do shit like that to you - even worse, someone who doesn't even really give a fuck about you.
haemophobe: (19 | ɪ ᴡᴏɴ'ᴛ sᴀʏ ᴍᴜᴄʜ ᴍᴏʀᴇ)

anon.

[personal profile] haemophobe 2017-02-26 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
( There's a sizeable pause here. Kate actually gets that, sort of. )

You can always be the one in control. It doesn't have to be about letting them do things to you.
Did something happen, anon?
circumitus: (it takes a train to cry)

anon.

[personal profile] circumitus 2017-02-26 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
you could say that.
haemophobe: (47 | ɴᴏᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴍᴏʀᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴀᴠᴏɪᴅ)

anon.

[personal profile] haemophobe 2017-02-27 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
That sucks, anon. Whatever it was.

Dunno what that's like but it isn't easy to trust people with sex. Always took charge because of it. Never tried to look for more than something to kill the time either. It was easier, couldn't be hurt like that.
circumitus: (it takes a train to cry)

anon.

[personal profile] circumitus 2017-03-02 03:22 am (UTC)(link)
no.
it isn't easy.

probably just a huge disappointment to the person who's insane enough to be with me.
Edited 2017-03-02 03:23 (UTC)