[ Maglor sighs softly, and his eyes are very old ] When...you love someone, when you devote yourself to walking in their shadow, to support them and to counsel them, to be their eyes and ears and right hand...you...get too caught up in the helping and...sometimes...you miss things. Yoh can't...or won't...see the hurt and the wounds that they hide from you because you don't know to look for them.