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[handofsilver]

I have a thing to ask; a thing that is not acceptable in my world, but it is part of my story and I think I must acknowledge it. I have noticed that other residents of Hadriel share half of my inclination, at least, and I must ask:

Is it possible for one man or woman to be attracted to both genders? I mean no offense. I admit that my first love - unrequited - was female. My wife was surely female! But there was a male...briefly...though he was naught but a monster seeking to ravage the world.

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[hasitsthorns]

it's kind of that
also, for me, i've always gotten along better with men? like
i understand them better usually than women
so it makes it easier to form that kind of connection after a bit
dudes are also like
way more obvious than ladies a lot of the time when they're interested in you as more than a friend

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[handofsilver]

That is true in my experience. I have been too honest in my affections in the past. It never brings me anything but heartache.

Perhaps I should be quieter? But then I feel as if I am luring them into a trap.

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[hasitsthorns]

I don't think being honest is a bad thing
but some people (like me) have a harder time with being that direct
or other people being that direct

it's not a trap, dude
not unless you're not NEVER planning to tell them and expect to figure it out
sometimes that's kind of fun, really, the "slow burn" type thing

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[handofsilver]

Why is it difficult for you? What would you prefer? Lies? I can find no honor in lying, though I realize there are times when withholding the truth is advantageous. (Or just safer.)

If I cared for them, I would keep nothing from them.