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[handofsilver]

I have a thing to ask; a thing that is not acceptable in my world, but it is part of my story and I think I must acknowledge it. I have noticed that other residents of Hadriel share half of my inclination, at least, and I must ask:

Is it possible for one man or woman to be attracted to both genders? I mean no offense. I admit that my first love - unrequited - was female. My wife was surely female! But there was a male...briefly...though he was naught but a monster seeking to ravage the world.

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[handofsilver]

So I am learning.

I was aware of that much, but the natural order of attraction seems to have been turned on its head in my case.

That will surely come in time.

Thank you.

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[am_i_a_monster]

Some people say it's a spectrum too.

You're welcome.

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[handofsilver]

Like light?

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[am_i_a_monster]

Maybe? It's like you can be equally attracted to both genders. Or mostly attracted to one gender and a little attracted to the other gender. Or at times, you can be more attracted to men and at other times in your life, more attracted to women.

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[handofsilver]

If I analyzed my sexuality to that extent, I would give myself a horrible headache.

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[am_i_a_monster]

Maybe just go with what feels right?

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[handofsilver]

What feels right is being incredibly cautious.

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[am_i_a_monster]

Then be cautious. There's nothing wrong with taking things slow or bring safe.